The
word "Hijab" comes from the Arabic word
"hajaba" meaning, to hide from view, or
conceal, refers to the covering of a woman's body
and hair, and is an order from Allah the almighty,
A
common misconception about Islam, is the dress of
a Muslim. The dress code is not optional, it is
an obligation, an order from Allah the almighty,
and it applies both to men and women equally. Men
and women are commanded to cover their "awra"
for a man this is from the navel to the knee, and
for a woman everything including the feet, except
for the hands and face must be covered.
Allah
says "O Prophet, tell your wives and
daughters and the believing women, to draw their
outer garments around them (when they go out or
are among men). That is better in order that they
may be known (to be Muslims) and not be annoyed"
In
regards to modest behaviour, It applies equally
to men Allah the almighty says "Say
to the believing men that they should lower their
gaze and guard their modesty, that will make for
greater purity for them, and Allah is well aware
of what they do"
And
regarding women Allah says "And say
to believing women that they should lower their
gaze and guard their modesty and that they should
not display their beauty and ornaments except that
which is apparent. That they should draw their veils
over their bosoms and not display their beauty except
to their husbands or their fathers, or their sons
or their husbands sons, or their brothers or their
brothers sons, or their sisters or their sisters
sons, or their women, or male servants free of physical
desire, or small children (who don't know what the
awra of women is) and they should not stamp their
feet in order to draw attention to their hidden
ornaments, O Believers turn together towards Allah,
that you may attain bliss"
Hijab
is a blessing from Allah, Muslim women are valued
for their personalities not for the way they look.
A
woman is not an object to ogled by men. If we look
today even to a simple television advert, women
are considered so worthless that they are used to
advertise anything from cars, to shower gel. They
decorate the front of newspapers, and so many women
live in misery subjugated into trying to keep up
with the latest fashion to try and keep their husbands
attention. Worrying whether they are too fat too
thin or if they need silicone implants.
How
degraded woman have become, magazines are adorned
with those upon whom a cruel trick has been played.
Women have even been led to believe that they should
enjoy looking at such images, or that it's something
to be expected and accepted that men will look at
such things. This leads to men being dissatisfied
with their wives and comparing them to unrealistic
images, most of the women do not look that way in
reality, airbrushing heavy make up and plastic surgery
give a false impression.
The
women adorning these covers think they have been
given some kind of freedom of expression. The fact
of the matter is that once they pass a certain age,
they will be discarded and another woman brought
to take her place. The women involved want their
youth preserved in images, and images are certainly
all they will have left to hold onto. We see that
once a woman passes her so called "prime"
she is considered no longer attractive this shallow
attitude is unacceptable in Islam.
The
prophet Muhammad was 25 when he married Khadija
who was 40 years old, they had six children together
and he loved her just as much 25 years later when
she died at age 65 regardless of the fact that she
had lost most of her teeth due to old age. When
his later wife, A`isha pointed this fact out, the
Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, was upset with
her for saying such a thing, for he loved Khadija
more than any of his wives and didn't mind in the
least how his wife looked. He loved her for who
she was.
The
problems arising from abuse and devaluing of women
are immense in today's society. Women are so subjugated
in some societies that they dance on tabletops or
around poles for the benefit of lecherous men. Rape,
violence and prostitution is common place. In a
study carried out last year in America, the biggest
cause of death to American women, were their husbands,
and partners. 40% of those murders were carried
out whilst the women were pregnant. These kinds
of statistics are absolutely shocking. The abuse
of women has brought about widespread diseases,
such as AIDS, clamidiya, herpes, syphilis, and numerous
other diseases these are the result of sexual activity
outside of marriage, promiscuity and adultery. The
penalty for proven adultery in Islam is death. How
many marriages would still be in tact if it weren't
for such evils as prostitutes and adultery. If this
penalty was imposed, it would certainly make people
think more than twice about being so flippant, and
risking the lives of their wives or husbands through
bringing deadly diseases to their spouses. How many
men, women and children would have been saved such
terrible pains, had people adhered to the commandments
of Almighty Allah…
People
today use the argument that anything between two
consenting adults is acceptable, however the damage
that arises from this attitude is clear and apparent
all around us. The financial cost to the state of
raising illegitimate children, the emotional damage
to the child who has no father, and to the mother
who has no support throughout her pregnancy childbirth
and caring for the child afterwards. This throwaway
attitude to human relationships has led to 48% of
children in the U.K. in the last five years being
born illegitimate. Sadly many of these children
will never know who their father was.
The
position of Islam is that a woman is precious, to
be protected, respected, her beauty shown only to
those family members whom she cannot marry, Once
a man has married a woman and is fulfilling his
rights and obligations, only then can he cast his
eyes upon her body, and she upon his. A woman is
entitled to the rights and respect given to her
by Allah the almighty , which she fully deserves.
A
Muslim man will be fully committed to a woman from
day one, through marriage. When a Muslim man marries
a woman he has seen nothing more than her hands
and face. He also has not spent time alone with
her, as he does not have the right play with her
emotions, then discard her.
Hijab
is first and foremost an order from almighty Allah
the creator of all that exists,and clearly the benefits
of Hijab as we have seen, are so numerous, valuing
a woman for who she is, and not how she looks ,
is something women have been fighting for in many
societies, for centuries. But women's lib"
is nothing new. Muslim women have been liberated,
valued for their minds and personalities for 1400
years. Now were just waiting for the rest of the
world to catch up with us.
Maysaa bint
Mikail